Have you wondered how a small change can bring new layers of meaning and happiness to your relationship and self esteem?

A Sex Coach's Insight to Controlling Your Orgasm

It's a catch-22 I hear from my clients all the time—"How can I last longer during sex if the pressure of lasting longer makes me come quicker?"

No man wants to ejaculate too soon. Not being able to last long enough to satisfy your partner negatively impacts your sex life, confidence, and relationship.

Instead of feeling pleasure, you feel ashamed and frustrated. Your inner critic takes you out of the moment, transforming a potentially amazing experience into a miserable memory your partner will forget (and you wish you could).

Even worse, it can be challenging to find helpful answers.

Googling the problem only leads to useless advice like “think about something unsexy”, or ”masturbate before you have sex" from self-proclaimed sex gurus. In most cases, their recommendations are unhelpful, harmful, or make the problem worse.

There are prescription medications, but many people prefer to start with a more organic solution. SSRIs and topical anesthetics come with a risk of side effects for certain individuals. 

Additionally, some men don’t feel comfortable discussing this with a new therapist. 

Given that so many men suffer from the same issue, I saw how there was no simple solution for guys that wanted to have better sex — naturally and at their own pace.


Note: P.E. is a medical condition and should be treated as such. If you haven’t already, please consider seeing a medical professional.

What You'll Gain From the Course

  • More Control

    Learn to delay your orgasm and become a mindblowing partner

  • Sexual Confidence

    Feel strong and secure knowing you can better satisfy a woman's needs

  • Freedom

    Stay in the moment and experience anxiety-free sex

  • Increased Intimacy

    Connect on a deeper level for more powerful intimate experiences

  • Irresistible Attraction

    Get in touch with and express your desires to become an open, alluring lover

  • No Medication

    Natural, sex coach approved techniques for lasting longer

What Clients Say About Keeley's Coaching

– BL

"I had no idea how many mistakes I was making. After taking your course, I can now last as long as I want—or as long as she can handle. Thank you helping me realize I am not doomed to a life of short, unsatisfying, and embarassing sex.”

– Ben C

"Keeley allowed me to overcome fears around dating. She is an amazing coach and a great person."

– V.C

"I have know Keeley for about 10 years now and on a professional level for about years. I can't speak highly enough to her integrity as a person and her genuineness in her caring and knowledge of her field. I would highly recommend Keeley and her services."

Meet Your Instructor

My name is Keeley Rankin and I’m a sex and relationship coach who specializes in male performance struggles.

For over a decade I have helped men become more confident in the bedroom, understand what women want, and get comfortable expressing their sexuality. I have my master’s in counseling psychology with an emphasis in holistic studies and a focus on marriage and family therapy from John F. Kennedy University.

I also spent seven years apprenticing under world-renowned therapist John Welwood and am certified as a Somatic Method Practitioner Sexological Bodyworker; and have trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self.

In this course, I’ll be guiding you along the way so you always feel supported, motivated, and inspired to stay on track.

See Inside the Course

Chapter 3
  • Masturbation as a training tool for learning to control your orgasm.
  • Using breath, arousal, and even anxiety to your advantage in bed.
  • How to better tune into your body and overcome anxiety.
  • The importance of the balanced human sexuality model and how it works.

Chapter 6
  • How to stay connected and in the moment with your partner.
  • Using the Up and Down Game to gain more control over your arousal.
  • Developing a more confident mindset by constructively analyzing your sexual performance.

Chapter 7
  • Understanding and avoiding the Orgasm Trap.
  • Delaying your ejaculation with the "Turn It Up But Don’t Blow" drill.
  • Learn what sexual experiences are like for men who don’t struggle with their orgasm.
  • Taking the pressure off yourself to truly enjoy your sexual experiences.

Chapter 8
  • Mirror Masturbation and two more physical and mental control tools to "build the walls of your house" and gain control over your ejaculation.
  • Thrusting in a way that maintains arousal but reduces anxious tension in the body.
  • Progress check before reintroducing fantasy and porn into your training.
  • How to discuss with a partner your progress and challenges.

Course Curriculum

  • 2

    Audio Basics

    • (Required Listening) Learn the Foundational Tools to Control Your Orgasm

  • 3

    Chapter 1

    • Measure Success Correctly and Trust The 5 Step Process

  • 4

    Chapter 2

    • Connect to Your Breath and Arousal

  • 5

    Chapter 3

    • Find Balance in Your Sexual Expression

  • 6

    Chapter 4

    • Manage Your Anxiety Better

  • 7

    Chapter 5

    • Open Up to Embrace Your Arousal

  • 8

    Chapter 6

    • Navigate Your Arousal and Mindset

  • 9

    Chapter 7

    • Avoid the Orgasm Trap

  • 10

    Chapter 8

    • Build the Walls on Your Sexual Foundation

  • 11

    Chapter 9

    • Bring in Fantasy to Increase Excitement

  • 12

    Chapter 10

    • Explore Your Erotic Experience and Make Some Noise

  • 13

    Chapter 11

    • Use Toys to Prepare For a Partner

  • 14

    Chapter 12

    • Enjoy Your Pleasure and Sexual Freedom

  • 15


    • Next Steps After Finishing This Course

Keeley's 4 Premature Ejaculation Myths

  • Myth #1 Premature Ejaculation Can’t Be Controlled

    Truth: You can control it, it just takes time and practice.

    You would not expect to play the piano one time and feel immediately proficient. The same is true for learning how to explore and master your orgasm. But by following tested advice and proven strategies, delaying your ejaculation soon becomes second nature.

  • Myth #2 Premature Ejaculation Decreases With Age

    Truth: Some men do grow out of their struggles as they get older, but many do not.

    I’ve had clients from ages 20 to 65 who wrestle with P.E. The simple truth is that the longer they wait to seek help, the harder it can be to overcome a lifetime of anxiety and shameful experiences. The best way forward is to get professional guidance ASAP.

  • Myth #3 Thinking About Something “Unsexy” Will Help You Last Longer

    Truth: Actually, the reverse is true!

    Thinking about other things while having sex will take you out of the moment and create stress—and that stress makes you come faster. Then you're still orgasming quickly, but now while subjecting yourself to thinking about the Pythagorean theorem.

  • Myth #4 You Just Need To Develop Your Kegel Muscles

    Truth: I have almost never worked with someone who had so little kegel muscle control that they needed to develop it.

    Learning how to properly relax your body, including your pelvic floor and kegel muscles, is the true key to lasting longer.

Ready to Last As Long As You Want?

What would overcoming premature ejaculation be worth to you? 

Can you imagine looking wholly forward to sex, without an ounce of performance anxiety? 

What would it feel like to have more control over your body and mind in bed? To have sex that lasts as long as you and your partner want? 

For most men, improving their sex life, confidence, and stamina in bed is priceless. And their partners would usually agree, too. 

So at a one-time cost of just $697, you’ll get instant access to my pioneering five-step system and receive all my tools, tips, and techniques for strengthening your staying power.

The course will be yours for life—the equivalent of getting unlimited counseling sessions with me—and you’ll be able to watch the training videos on all of your devices. 

Coaching hundreds of men from all different backgrounds, demographics, and experience levels has shown me that you can learn to control your orgasms and create unforgettable sexual experiences.

I look forward to helping you join those men by becoming a more confident, in-control lover that can go the distance.

You Will Receive Immediate Access To…

  • 12 in-depth training videos showing you how to naturally control your orgasm—streamable on any device.

  • Audio versions of each module so you can keep learning on-the-go.

  • Transcribed versions of each module so you won’t miss anything.

  • The 50-minute Breathwork Audio Course that teaches you the basics of orgasm control.

  • Chapter-specific skill progressions and checklists to easily track your progress.

  • Additional resources to support and accelerate your growth.


  • What Topics Are Covered In The Course?

    Love Longer covers the mindsets and strategies I have used successfully with countless clients in my practice as a certified sex and relationship coach.

    The course shows you how to last longer in bed though stamina-building exercises, proper breathing techniques for getting rid of anxiety, mastering raising and lowering your arousal level, and much more.

  • What's included in the course?

    Love Longer includes 12 high-definition PE video lessons, audio for each of those lessons as well as written transcripts, a 50-minute Breathwork Audio Course, and other supplemental resources for becoming a better, longer-lasting lover.

  • What payments methods do you accept?

    We accept credit and debit cards as well as bank payments via PayPal. For the latter, your payments are processed securely on PayPal's end through Secure Socket Layer (SSL) encryption and your information is never stored on our servers.

  • How much does the course cost?

    A one-time purchase of $697 grants you lifetime access to the course.

    Even if you only watch the videos once, that price comes out cheaper than what you would pay for a few visits to a sex therapist's office.

  • Do you offer a money back guarantee?

    Yes! I always want you to find my coaching valuable. If you tried implementing my advice and didn't see any improvements, I offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. To refund your purchase, email nick@livereconnected.com.

  • How can I access the course?

    Once your payment is processed, you will receive an email invitation with your account information. From there, you can log in to the course dashboard and access all of the training materials.

  • How do I contact you if i have any questions or concerns?

    For questions about the course or the advice within, email info@keeleyrankin.com.

    If you have a problem accessing the materials or are requesting a refund, email nick@livereconnected.com.